Summary

• Sophie’s secret bisexuality may jeopardize her relationship with Rob, as she has kept it hidden from him.
• Sophie’s first crush as a child was on a girl, but she suppressed her feelings due to societal expectations.
• Sophie is nervous about coming out to Rob and worries that he may accuse her of cheating. Their relationship becomes more complicated.

90 Day Fiancé star Sophie Sierra’s shocking secret could end her relationship with Rob Warne for good. Sophie is a 23-year-old from London who grew up in Spain. Sophie dealt with bullying while growing up as she was of mixed race. Sophie connected with bi-racial Rob after coming across his photo on an Instagram account featuring mixed-race men. Rob from Los Angeles was a struggling actor and model living in a tiny apartment with no bathroom in Inglewood. They started dating long-distance before they stayed together for a while in the U.S. Sophie was the one who suggested the idea of applying for a K-1 visa.

She moved to America in season 10. Sophie was brought up wealthy due to her rich grandpa’s money. Rob knew Sophie wouldn’t adjust to the life he was offering her but did nothing to improve his lifestyle. Sophie complained about the lack of a bathroom. However, they had bigger problems to worry about in this relationship. Sophie was contacted by a woman who was talking to Rob on DMs before Sophie moved to the U.S. As soon as Sophie started settling in, she dreamed about Rob cheating on her and found an app on his phone with inappropriate messages from several women. Both times, Rob insisted what he had done didn’t qualify as cheating.

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Sophie Kept Bisexuality Hidden From Rob

Sophie met up with her friend Maya in episode 1 of 90 Day Fiancé. Maya met Rob when Sophie had first gone to Los Angeles to stay with Rob. Sophie said that when Maya met Rob he was a gentleman, but he hadn’t been as much of a gentleman since then. Sophie mentioned how Rob cheated on her with a girl he started talking to online. It happened when Rob and Sophie had a rough patch because they hadn’t met for a long time during COVID-19. Sophie convinced her friend that she’d forgiven Rob for what happened. She wished Maya would forgive Rob as well.

However, Sophie also revealed that while she knew everything about Rob, Rob still didn’t know a lot about his wife-to-be. They had known each other for almost three years and yet, Sophie hadn’t told him her secret. Sophie hadn’t told her friend Maya about her sexuality either. Sophie admitting it on camera was her first time admitting it to anyone. She told Maya, “Basically, um, I’m bisexual.” Sophie said that she wouldn’t announce it but would surely say “yeah” if someone asked her about it. She knew that her sexuality was no one’s business. Sophie did feel “good” while saying it out loud.

Sophie’s First Crush In Childhood Was A Girl

Sophie knew she had always been attracted to both men and women. Sophie’s first crush was a girl. Sophie was just five years old back then. Sophie pushed aside her attraction to women because she was also attracted to men. She felt it was easier for her to date men. Sophie liked getting it off her chest when she told Maya about it. At the same time, Sophie feared that if she didn’t explore her sexuality before getting married, she could face some problems. Sophie decided she’d find a way to figure things out for herself without ruining their relationship.

Sophie had suppressed her feelings towards women for years because she also liked boys. She did feel like she liked both men and women “the same amount.” Sophie said she’d never had a girlfriend. Sophie wondered if she was making a mistake by marrying Rob because she had never explored her sexuality at all. She’d never been physically “all the way” with a girl, so she didn’t know what it really felt like. Sophie wondered if Rob would be willing to “negotiate some kind of thing” so she could explore her feelings towards the same sex. Maya asked Sophie to tell him to see how he reacted, even though it was too late now.

Sophie Worries About Being Outed To Rob

Sophie and Rob went to a club in episode 5, where they were joined by their friends Tor’i and Soraya (via AccessHollywood.) Tor’i had been warning Rob about Sophie’s intentions since he’d seen her on Bumble. In the same timeframe that he caught her using the app, Sophie also met Soraya on what she claims was the “friend side” of it. Sophie said it was proof that she was using the app to meet friends and not to cheat on Rob. The cameras caught Tor’i saying that if one is on a dating app and meeting girls it would mean they’re “into girls or something.” Tor’i suspected Sophie was avoiding his questions.

According to him, if one was on a dating app, they were there to date and not make friends. Sophie tried to tell Tor’i that the app had a friend mode, but he said “Women are capable of anything” out of “personal experience.” When Rob and Tor’i met Soraya, Rob asked her if she met Sophie on the “friend side.” They asked her, “So you’re not into girls?” and Soraya replied, “No, I wouldn’t even look.” Sophie admitted it was an awkward moment because Soraya, Rob, and Tor’i did not know that she was bisexual.

She didn’t want it to be the moment when she came out, even though she was good friends with Soraya and Tor’i. She kept telling the producers that she was on the “app for friends” and wasn’t on it for women. Sophie revealed she was still using the app to make friends because she didn’t know anyone in Los Angeles. She said there were bisexual women on the friend side. “So you can be bi or gay even and look for friends,” she explained. However, the awkward incident made Sophie realize she should tell Rob that she’s bisexual. She had been putting it off because they had been arguing. Sophie made up her mind to tell Rob the truth.

Will Rob Accuse Sophie Of Cheating Now?

The preview for 90 Day Fiancé episode 8 revealed Sophie will be telling Rob about her sexuality next week. Sophie tells the cameras she is ready to tell Rob that she is bisexual. However, she admits that she’s not looking forward to it. Sophie sits Rob down next to her on their bed and says that she has to tell him something. She suddenly gets up and asks him to give her a second. Sophie heads out of the house and reveals she’s having a panic attack. Sophie says she’s having a “rush” of feelings coming through. Rob goes to Sophie to ask her why she is crying.

Sophie isn’t able to say anything as she continues breathing hard and weeping. Rob might not be able to accept Sophie’s orientation immediately. He could accuse her of cheating on him with women, perhaps even Soraya. Sophie also wishes for Rob to give her a chance to get physical with women before they marry. This makes Rob and Sophie’s 90 Day Fiancé relationship all the more complicated. It remains to be seen if Sophie even comes out to Rob in episode 8 or if her panic attack stops her from doing it.

90 Day Fiancé airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.

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  90 Day Fiance

  Release Date:

  2014-01-12

  Cast:

  Shaun Robinson

  Main Genre:

  Reality

  Genres:

  Romance, Drama, Reality TV

  Seasons:

  9

  Network:

  TLC

  Streaming Service(s):

  TLC GO

  Franchise(s):

  90 Day Fiancé

  Directors:

  Rogue Rubin, Kevin Rhoades, Jessica Hernandez

  Showrunner:

  Kyle Hamley